Un-veil Your Style: A Guide to a Perfect Micro-Wedding

Hi friends!

In this guide, we'll talk about planning a micro-wedding! Each detail reflects the essence of your journey together as a couple, so we’ll explore how to make every moment count!

Bride and Grooms hands with rings

Micro-Wedding Planning

Micro-weddings are a deliberate choice to keep things small, typically ranging from 20 to 50 guests. The intrigue lies in creating an environment where every attendee is not just a witness but an active participant in your love story, where every conversation carries weight, and every shared laugh is a testament to the bonds you hold dear.

Whether it's the coziness of a private home, the charm of an outdoor setting, or the allure of a unique event space, you can choose a location that resonates with your love story and your style.

Beautiful wedding bride and groom under fuchsia flowers.

By limiting the guest list to close family and friends, couples ensure that every attendee holds a special place in their hearts. Remember, it's not the size of the celebration but the depth of the connections that make the day extraordinary.

Practical tips:

1. Define Your Non-Negotiables:

Begin by identifying your non-negotiables. What elements are essential to your celebration? Understanding your priorities sets the tone for the planning process, whether it's a specific venue, a meaningful ceremony ritual, or a particular theme.

2. Create a Personalized Guest Experience:

Craft a guest experience that resonates with your unique style. From personalized invitations to thoughtful favors, infuse every aspect with elements that reflect your love story. Consider handwritten notes or custom playlists to make each guest feel truly special.

Wedding timeline

3. Optimize Your Micro-Wedding Space:

Make the most of your chosen micro-wedding space. If it's an outdoor setting, enhance natural elements. For indoor venues, consider creative lighting to set the mood. The key is to optimize the space to create an intimate and visually stunning atmosphere.

Wedding greenery arch overlooking ocean

4. Interactive Guest Involvement:

Foster a sense of community by involving your guests in interactive experiences. Whether it's a communal art project, a group activity, or even a shared dance, creating moments of connection elevates the entire experience.

5. Prioritize Comfortable Seating:

Opt for comfortable and inviting seating arrangements. Whether it's intimate lounge areas or cozy table setups, prioritize your guests' comfort. This enhances the overall ambiance and encourages relaxed conversations.

6. Capture Candid Moments:

Hire a photographer who specializes in capturing candid moments. Micro-weddings thrive on genuine emotions, and a skilled photographer can immortalize the laughter, tears, and unscripted moments that make your day extraordinary.

Pinecone Place Setting For Groom

Our Story:

So, Jon and I got together when I was 18. Fast forward to 2020, and we made a bold move—we bought a house. We skipped the engagement ring and went straight to the mortgage papers. Why? Well, it made more sense for us. I was 22, interest rates were historic, and the idea of a wedding could wait. Don't worry— when we decide to take that plunge, you'll get the front-row seat to all the madness and magic. Insider scoop? Absolutely.

**UPDATE: We finally got engaged 5/3/24!! Read all about it here!

Our engagement!

We're hustling, building businesses, renovating our home, and chasing dreams together. In this economy, it is not the right time for us to walk down the aisle. Cue the sad trombone for me, but it's a woo-hoo for Jon's savings account! LOL. So, even though I might not have a micro-wedding story of my own to share yet, I'm here to be your virtual wingwoman on your own wedding adventures!

Micro-weddings aren't just about scaling down the guest list. They're about scaling up the love, connection, and moments that matter. For those of us still waiting for the perfect moment to say "I do," fear not. Love isn't measured by the size of the ring or the grandeur of the celebration. It's about the shared laughter, the quiet moments, and the unwavering commitment to building a life together.

So, here's to the dreamers, the planners, the lovebirds, and those on the sidelines cheering them on! Whether crafting your own micro-wedding masterpiece or soaking in the inspiration for the future, may your journey be filled with love, laughter, and the joy of shared moments. The adventure continues, and I can't wait to see the magic you create in your own micro-wedding story.

And for those wondering, we’re eyeing 2026 for our wedding and have NO ideas about what we’re doing yet LOL. We tend not to rush things!

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Share your thoughts below! Have you attended or planned a micro-wedding? What made it special? Or maybe you're dreaming up your intimate celebration—tell me about it! Your stories and insights could be the inspiration someone needs!

Until next time, keep dreaming, planning, and celebrating the love that makes life extraordinary!

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