Hi friends!

With Friendsgiving just around the corner, I can't help but feel a wave of excitement as I think about all the fun and laughter that awaits! This gathering has become such a cherished tradition for me, and I'm eager to share my go-to timeline for hosting this festive occasion. Whether you're a seasoned host or gearing up for your first Friendsgiving, trust me when I say that having a solid plan is crucial for a memorable and enjoyable celebration.

For me, Friendsgiving isn't just about the food—though let's be honest, the food is a huge highlight! It's about cultivating a warm atmosphere, celebrating the friendships that mean so much, and indulging in some seriously delicious dishes. I always opt for a juicy spiral ham just because it's easier for 25+ people than turkey. I save that for actual Thanksgiving. And I make sure to have some crowd-pleasers on the table—like my creamy mac and cheese and that infamous "crack corn" everyone raves about!

The Week Before Prep Is Key

1 Month Out: Invitations & Finalizing the Menu

First things first—let's talk about inviting your guests! I've found that keeping it simple works best, so I usually turn to Facebook Events for all my gatherings. It's a fantastic way to keep everything organized: you can easily track who's coming, address any questions, and keep all the details in one neat place. Plus, your guests can interact with one another, which adds to the excitement!

Once that's set, it's time to pick a date and send those invitations. It's essential to ensure everyone is on the same page about when the fun will happen. Don't forget to remind your guests to RSVP! This little step is crucial. It builds anticipation and helps you plan your food quantities accordingly—nobody wants to be left scrambling at the last minute.

Now, let's talk menu! I already have a few favorites in mind for the gathering—like my crowd-pleasing spiral ham, creamy mac and cheese, addictive "crack corn," and the usual suspects that never disappoint. Now's the time to finalize that list! Oh, and I always include drinks and appetizers, especially since I like to ask my friends to bring a dish to share. It makes for a more diverse spread and allows everyone to contribute.

And speaking of contributions, it's shopping list time! Start making a comprehensive list, so you're ready for the big day. Check your pantry to see what ingredients you already have on hand. Being organized keeps things stress-free. The last thing you want is to run around like a headless chicken the day before, wondering if you have enough butter or need more spices. Trust me, staying prepared is the key to enjoying your event right along with your guests!

14 Days Out: Equipment & Kitchen Prep

You should have all your menu items finalized by this point, which is fantastic! Let's take a moment to really check our kitchen supplies. It's essential to ensure you have everything you'll need for the big day. I recommend going through your pantry and fridge to see if you have enough staples like spices, oils, and condiments.

When it comes to kitchen prep, I like to take a little time to make sure everything is in order. Clear those counters—trust me, a tidy space makes a world of difference! It's incredible how much easier it is to cook and serve in a clutter-free environment. Don't forget to pull out those serving platters and bowls you plan to use; it'll help you visualize your layout and make the serving process smoother.

Oh, and if you're considering ordering special items—like pre-cooked dishes, unique snacks, or specific beverages—now's the ideal time to place those orders. Whether it's a gourmet cheese platter or a selection of craft beers, getting them in now avoids any last-minute stress. Having everything planned and in place makes your event more enjoyable and ensures you can focus on having a great time with your guests. Trust me, a little prep goes a long way!

7-4 Days Before: Grocery Run & Cooking Prep

This is where the magic truly begins! First things first, let's talk about smart shopping. Based on your finalized menu, you should create a list of everything you'll need. Since I'm taking the reins in the kitchen, my list tends to get extensive. Think spiral ham, rich and creamy ingredients for mac and cheese, all the fixings for that irresistible crack corn, and the necessary sides to complement everything beautifully.

And don't overlook drinks and desserts! If your guests are chipping in, it's a good idea to double-check what they're bringing along (even if it's just a gentle nudge so you don't end up with five pies). It's all about balance, right?

While you're at it, scoop up some extras that might slip your mind, like napkins, delightful candles for that perfect table setting, or those last-minute garnishes that can elevate any dish. Trust me, every detail counts!

Now, when it comes to prep cooking, I'm a firm believer in make-ahead strategies. If you plan to whip up a decadent dessert—like pies or cakes—this is your moment to shine. Get those baked and ready well in advance; it takes off so much pressure on the big day!

Lastly, organization is key! I like to sort all my ingredients by category—grouping everything needed for the mac and cheese together or setting aside items for the corn. This little trick not only streamlines the cooking process, making it feel less chaotic, but it also allows you to focus on what really matters: creating delicious food and sharing it with friends.

So grab that list, hit the grocery store, and let's get this party started! It's all about creating memorable moments around the table, beginning in the kitchen.

The Day Before: Almost Ready

Let's talk about that crucial day before Friendsgiving—it's like a mini holiday of its own! I don't know about you, but I always feel the excitement in the air as I get ready for the gathering. While you might think everything has to be whipped up on the big day, quite a few dishes benefit from a bit of pre-planning.

First, let's tackle that delicious ham. I always go with a spiral ham because it's super easy to prep. You can pop it in the oven the day before, following the instructions on the packaging for the perfect heat. To take it up a notch, I love to baste it with a sweet glaze—trust me, it makes a world of difference!

Next up are the sides. My homemade mac and cheese is always a crowd favorite, and prepping it the day before saves time and hassle. And don't forget my "crack corn"—it's a must-have! This cheesy, creamy dish is one that everyone gobbles up!

Now, let's not overlook beverages. Make sure to chill all your drinks the night before. Whether it's wine, sparkling cider, or a fun punch, having everything nice and cold will impress your guests right from the start.

Once the cooking is sorted, it's time to focus on the ambiance. Setting the table can truly elevate the gathering experience. Lay out your plates, utensils, and glasses, and think about adding some candles or flowers to create that warm, inviting vibe.

If you're serving appetizers—and let's be honest, who doesn't love a good snack?—set up a separate table with a little spread. This way, guests can munch while waiting for the main course. It keeps the energy up and encourages mingling.

These little tips can make all the difference in enjoying your Friendsgiving. The more prep you do beforehand, the more you can savor those precious moments with your friends and family. Happy prepping!

The Morning Of: Game Time

The big day is finally here! Before we dive into the festivities, there are just a few last-minute tasks to tackle.

First, let's focus on cooking. If you've got any sides left to finish—like those delicious roasted veggies or creamy mashed potatoes—now's the time to get them going. Nothing beats the aroma of fresh food wafting through the house. Don't forget about the gravy and sauces! If you're making those from scratch, they should be simmering on the stovetop. A good gravy can elevate any meal, especially when it coats that gorgeous ham waiting in the oven. Remember, since the ham is already pre-cooked, we only need to warm it up, which I usually do while juggling everything else in the kitchen.

Now, let's shift to hydration—what's a gathering without drinks? Setting up a dedicated drink station is a must! Create a little area with everything from wine and beer to sparkling water and sodas. Don't forget ice and some fun glasses—maybe even a festive cocktail. A well-stocked drinks station keeps the party flowing and makes mingling much easier.

Once that's handled, I always take a moment to reheat anything prepped the day before. Just a quick pop in the oven, and voila! Finally, don't forget about the table setting. A quick touch-up can make a world of difference; I love to make sure the ambiance feels warm and inviting. A little attention to detail—like lighting some candles or adding fresh flowers—can set the mood.

With these last-minute tasks checked off your list, you'll be ready to welcome friends and family for an unforgettable Friendsgiving celebration! Enjoy every moment!

Before Guests: the last Details

Now that your house smells divine and the table is set with all those delicious dishes, it's finally time to kick back and relax before the delightful chaos begins! You know how it goes—anticipation in the air while everyone arrives, and I want to make sure we're all set for a beautiful time together.

First, let's check in with our guests. I like to snag a quick look at the Facebook Events page to see if there are any last-minute questions popping up. It's such a great tool for coordinating who's bringing what. While I'm at it, I'll also double-check if anyone has special dietary restrictions we need to accommodate—better safe than sorry, right? Nothing's worse than someone feeling left out at the feast!

Next, it's time to create that cozy, festive ambiance that screams Friendsgiving! Light a few candles around the dining area to add a warm glow, and remember to put on your favorite playlist. Some classic tunes or even a curated mix that gets everyone in a cheerful mood. Setting the right vibe can really enhance the experience, making everyone feel welcomed and relaxed.

Remember, this is all about enjoying each other's company and creating memories that will last a lifetime. So, let's savor this moment before the festivities begin!

Guests Arrive: The Big Moment

This is the fun part! Guests are arriving, and the food is ready to be served.

Appetizers First:

Since my guests are bringing appetizers, I make sure there's an easy way for them to set their items out. I always have a spread for guests to munch on while we get ready to eat.

Serve the Main Meal:

Once everyone's arrived and caught up, it's time to dish out your main spread. I like to serve the ham with all the sides I've spent the week preparing, ensuring everyone has enough of each dish to enjoy.

After the Meal: Relax and Enjoy

Once the meal is finished and everyone's stuffed, it's time to sit back, relax, and enjoy the rest of the evening.

Dessert Time:

Desserts are always the grand finale of Friendsgiving! After everyone's had their food, bring out the desserts your friends or family brought. I usually finish off with something homemade.

Wrap-Up the Evening:

As your guests prepare to leave, please take a moment to thank them for coming and send them off with any leftovers. It's always nice to give guests a little something to take home.

Too Long; Didn't Read (TLDR)

Hosting a Friendsgiving is all about good food, great friends, and a cozy atmosphere. Here's a quick timeline to help you pull it all together:

• 7 Days Out: Send invitations and finalize your menu.

• 5 Days Out: Prep your kitchen and shop for ingredients.

• 3 Days Before: Do the grocery run and start cooking the prep.

• Day Before: Cook your sides, bake desserts, and set the table.

• Morning Of: Finish cooking, set up your drinks station, and get the ambiance ready.

• Before Guests Arrive: Reheat, check Facebook Event, and prep appetizers.

• During the Meal: Serve appetizers first, then the main meal, and end with dessert.

• After the Meal: Relax and enjoy, and give guests leftovers!

Lessons Learned

How do you celebrate Friendsgiving? Do you have any food traditions that make your gathering special? Let me know in the comments! And if you're feeling inspired to host your own Friendsgiving, don't forget to sign up for my newsletter for more party-planning tips, recipes, and a behind-the-scenes look at my favorite gatherings. Sign up for my free newsletter here!